My Cat used the bathroom on my bed while I was sleeping

I know this will be a question that is gross but i’m going to ask. The day after my cat had her kitten the next night she used the bathroom on my bed while I was sleeping. Why did she do this? Was it to get my attention? Was she mad at me?


A cat who soiled the bed the night after giving birth leaves the owner wondering if it was spite or a plea for attention. The question is a fair one, and it is common to feel confused and a little hurt. What matters is working out why the behavior happened, not assuming she was angry.

A practical next step is to look at her setup after the birth. Make sure her litter box is clean, easy to reach, and close to the kittens, so she does not have to leave them far behind. Keep her bed area calm, and if it happens again, a check with the vet is a sensible way to rule out a health problem.